Many people wonder how to attract a Capricorn Male. While it may seem difficult to get through the strong and silent type, there are some secrets in attracting a Capricorn man that can make it much easier when you understand what makes him tick.
Capricorn men are serious, conservative, and often driven to succeed. These are qualities they tend to look for in their partners as well. Before you try to catch a Capricorn a man, it is a good idea to make sure that you are compatible with him first, since if you’re going for the chase, you might as well make sure you are the right type that will get along well with each other.
What are the Compatible Signs for Capricorn?
The most compatible signs for Capricorns are Virgo, Taurus, and Pisces. These signs all compliment each other very well. This does not mean if you are not one of these signs you won’t be able to get along or fall in love – but you will likely face a lot of personality differences that could cause some conflict in the long term.
The first thing to remember is you must be your true self. Capricorns have no tolerance for game playing and take trust and loyalty seriously – so pretending to be someone else is not going to work.
You will likely need to be patient to catch a Capricorn, as they don’t tend to commit or fall in love easily. (See How to Get a Capricorn Man to Fall in Love.
Here are some things to do:
Learn His Likes: Learn about what he likes and do these things together if you have a similar interest. For example, if he likes golf, you may ask him to go golfing with you or to see a golfing event together.
Pace Yourself: Capricorn men will take their time opening up and getting to know someone, so don’t ask too many questions the first time you are together or pressure them to talk a lot about certain issues if they don’t offer them up themselves.
Emphasize Your Strengths: When dating a Capricorn, it is often like going on a job interview, and you may not have much time to show off your skills. Think of your three best strengths the Capricorn man may be attracted to and work them into your first conversations. (IE: I really love my job…I’m studying XYZ so I can…, etc.)
Give Compliments: Cap men are very proud of their accomplishments and the things they have worked for, such as nice car or nice clothes. Give a genuine compliment (not one that seems trite or mocking) and it can go very far. Example: “I am really impressed that you got a 4.0 GPA all through college, you must have worked very hard.”
Things Not to Do:
Don’t be someone you’re not: Lies will catch up with you eventually, and the Capricorn male is unforgiving of dishonesty.
Don’t Come on Too Strong: Cap men need some time to warm up – so don’t come on too strong or try to rush things – they tend to need some time and are turned off by rushing things.
Don’t Expect Him to Change: You can’t change a person, so it’s important for you to realize the Capricorn male is the way you see him – and no matter what you do he will stay that way. So if there are any major things that concern you, it may be better to find a different sign for a mate.
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