There are many traits of a Gemini male to consider when trying to understand the characteristics of a Gemini man. Knowing these things will make it much easier to understand your relationships with Gemini men – and if you’re one of the compatible signs with Gemini, you’ll be likely to have a great relationship full of fun and excitement.
The most important things to remember about the Gemini man is that he is ruled by a dual personality. Gemini’s symbol is that of the twins, and so it may seem like sometimes he has two different personalities, and this can sometimes even extend to more than just two different personality types. This is probably one of the hardest things for their partners to understand, since they don’t realize they can sometimes seem hypocritical or hard to predict.
It’s important then for anyone in a relationship to make sure they learn all sides of their partners – and if there is a persona you don’t particularly care for, that may be an issue. However, if you can love all of his moods and ever changing opinions, then you stand a good chance of success.
Gemini men are quite unpredictable, and they don’t like to stay tied down to any one thing or person for a long time. He may change jobs or careers haphazardly, and romantic interests are often always changing. Since there are often different sides of his character, you may be surprised when he does some things, since it may be coming from a side of him you don’t know very well.
Witty and Intellectual
He tends to be very witty and intellectual, and he will enjoy mentally stimulating and analytical conversations. They can talk about pretty much any topic with just about anyone, and so they are quick to make new friends and they greatly enjoy social gatherings with friends and family.
If he has the means to do so, he will enjoy hosting a number of parties and gatherings. His ability to get along with nearly everyone is a great trait, though some signs more prone to controlling and jealousy may have a problem with this.
Keep Things Exciting
The Gemini man needs to constantly have something to interest him or he will quickly grow bored. He is not the type to fall into a routine or to do the same things all the time. He is not very reliable or responsible – so if your goal is to get married and settle down, you will not likely find much security or stability with a Gemini man.
This does not mean he cannot commit if he finds true love – but you will have to continually make sure things are kept exciting and interesting or else he may lose interest in the relationship.
Gemini men are more loyal than other Air signs, and so infidelity is not typically a worry. However, if you are the type to become jealous, then you may run into problems as he will likely flirt with others, even though he does not mean to do so. They are very social and love to interact with other people – and to a controlling or easily jealous mate, that friendliness he portrays could seem like much more than it is, even though it is likely innocent.
Doesn’t Commit Easily
Gemini men usually go through several relationships before finally finding the girl they wish to marry. Part of this is the need for keeping things interesting and fresh; the other reason is for when he falls in love, he wants it to be the real thing. Pressuring him to commit or move things too quickly may drive him away – this sign is childlike in nature and so to them, part of the fun is in the game of the chase to get someone to fall in love with.
Childlike and Mischievous
When dating a Gemini man, you’ll be glad to know you have your freedom and ability to do anything you wish. However, bear in mind he will likely expect the same of you for him. Geminis often possess many childlike qualities, and so it is not surprising if you find him interested in games or amusements, or even acting like a child would, when dealing with things in life.
He can even be a little mischievous at times. They are not the most responsible of people, and it is easy for them to get dates confused or to completely blow off others, even if they are important to him. For this reason, their partners may sometimes become frustrated or feel that they need to take care of him, even though he is quite capable of making it on his own.
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